But.
There were an awful lot of things. I became the girl who just could not say no. Need a volunteer? I was your girl. Need help? I can lift that, do that, organize that. The thing is that I really do enjoy doing a little bit of everything so saying yes was never outside of my comfort zone.
But.
Enjoying everything and trying to do everything did not work. I ended up missing out on life. My kids were growing and I was not fully present in their life or my own. So it was time for a change.
So.
I took a breath. A really long breath. I learned how to step away from the screen. I stepped down from some committees telling myself it is time to give some other moms a go. Those ones in their thirties look hungry for experiences.
Now.
After several months of removing, I can begin to add again. To really relish the items that I add back in. To enjoy. To breathe. To live.
I love capturing moments of my children on film. In my business, I found I was taking photos primarily for assignments and with a specific need in mind. I am rediscovering my love of photography. And I am keeping the camera as a side note while the family fun takes center stage.
On Monday, I headed to the Morton Arboretum with my mother in law, sister in law, and all of the kids. 7 in total from age 1 to 11. I took an assignment in mind inspired by a challenge at the blog Simple As That. It was to take a photo of a simple moment this week. LOVE!
As we wandered along a lake, the older five kids sneaked under a tree off the beaten path and found a big rock where they could sit and look at tadpoles and search for frogs. I was across the way pushing the baby stroller when I glanced back to see this sweet summer moment.
I added just a simple title to make a postcard to send to my inlaws as a simple reminder of a wonderful day.
Would you like to see some more simply beautiful photos, click the logo and wander through. These are some totally talented people! Thanks to Rebecca for the inspiration.
Lovely post and a gorgeous photo. I also have only last week discovered Rebecca's blog.
ReplyDeleteFor several years I enjoyed paper scrapping, until baby number 8 came along three years ago and was very time-demanding. I DO love using my photos in my blog, which I started early this year.
Such a lovely and true post!
ReplyDeleteYour photos looks so summery and HOT! It's still so cold and rainy here!
Jo-Anna
Very sweet photo and memory!
ReplyDeleteThis is lovely. I love the idea of removing things. Sometimes you get so busy that you forget to live.
ReplyDeletehon I so totally ♥ that pic!!! incredible!
ReplyDeleteAnd I am really into Simple things in general! - but I also like the link-